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I work with a lot of people.  People who want to change their homes, change their lives, grow their wealth, live with more love.  I work with more than I ever thought possible, and more and more every day.

The biggest person I work with now, though, is me.

Every single day.

Taking care of me.  Looking at where I’m ignoring myself.  Seeing where I’m being really hard on myself. Looking in the mirror from time to time and reminding myself I’m human and not a bunch of characteristics that need to measure up to pictures on social media.

I didn’t used to work that way.

I was so thrilled at first to have so many people to help as everything blew up in a surge of creative opportunities, so many people to design with, so many new projects, that I was last on the list.

I was doing what I love the most, so, it was all good.  I was insanely great.  Dream-come-true stuff.

So what if I missed some sleep or spent half my year on a plane or had my days so packed that I could barely keep up!?  It was so exciting!

And then…

I lost my voice every other week.  I thought it was just that my voice needed training to speak so much.

I got some over-worked issue in my arm and couldn’t move it for two months. I thought I just needed to hire someone to do typing for me. 

I had this exhaustion wash over me in the midst of so much joy and creativity and I was convinced that I had to just get new vitamins.

My life was telling me over and over again that I needed to make a change and I did everything but look deeper at what was happening.

I had a string of clients come to me that were going through the same thing.  In them I saw clearly how much they would benefit from putting themself first.  We change their space, shored up the energy leaks, cleared out the old habit fields, started an immersion in self-love on so many levels that they started thriving and feeling fantastic. They found new purpose and mission.  They were lit up.

If I ever wanted a mirror of life, this was it.

I started putting incredible amounts of time into my puppies, sleeping, taking breaks, beach walks, friends, love… I loved my work, but I had so much more grace and calm and rest.

And then…

Life gave me a deal with a skincare company that brought me back to spas, facials and even making more art…  I got another deal to write about breakthroughs in wellness, all sorts of wild health products pouring into my house… Another series of high-profile speaking events partnered me up with a incredible energy healer who did heart-opening, cord cutting, highest-vibes flowing everywhere…

I started designing things my own way and the universe met me more than halfway!

It was like I couldn’t get enough self-care.  Everywhere I turned, there was more.

You can do this.  You can make joy and rest and self love a big part of your life.  You really can.  And if you’re feeling spent, blah, over-cooked, burned out or anything less than vibrance, you may want to give it a go to see what happens?! 

I had no time and, yet, when I decided to do it,  I had more time than I thought!

I was almost nostalgic for that feeling of pushing everything to Level 10 (we all resist change!), but I was prospering even more in a more balanced place.

I got so much more clear on my creative voice that I stopped losing my voice.

I realized I’m an artist first, and I could understand that even though things looked like good for business if they weren’t for me, they weren’t for me.  I learned to say no to deals (books, business stuff) and offers (clients, life-changing type of jobs) that were just not me as great as they could be.  People thought I was crazy (even I did for a moment!), but saying NO when it feels like NO is self-love and it felt right.

And, from there, the Love Camp was born.  It was the Camp I thought I’d make in the first year of making the Feng Shui Camps four years ago.  I thought I would create the Camp for Clutter, then Money, then Love.  But, these take half a year to make because they’re so full and it kept getting pushed…

Funny how Love kept getting pushed until later (!) until the mirror of my life was very crystal clear, and the biggest of all the Feng Shui Camps came to life.

I don’t say it lightly when I say that love is your manifesting magic.

And, it’s not meant to be airy and unicorn-like, as much as I am full of airy, unicorn-like thoughts!

Love was the thing that took me to levels in relationships, work, life, health and happiness that I can’t even fathom. Without this re-tuning of my life, I probably would have been on an extended sabattical by now trying to pick up the pieces of my burned-out self.

I had always done a good deal of wellness, spiritual practice and self-care.   I didn’t know what I was missing in terms of love’s power until I gave myself the most I’d ever experienced, that which I needed so much, and… it was epic.

The Rice Experiment sums it up beautifully.  Look at what happens when you love things and what happens when you ignore others!

One Love Camper told me after the first round when her whole life changed so gorgeously and dramatically, “My desire for others to know that it’s truly possible to have a life full of love is immense.”

It’s truly possible to have a life full of love.

Even if you aren’t in your dream job.  Even if you’ve got lots of responsibilities.  Even(especially) if you’re struggling in some way.

Love is the fountain of youth.  It elevates your cells.  It turns your body into more glowing light.  It makes you magnetic.  And it’s the reason why, of all the things I do now, the most important is stay grounded in the fact that my love for me in action is the engine of my own life. 

When asked in a hospice if they had regrets, the most potent that patients told a nurse:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

2. I wish I hadn’t worked so hard.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

When I first read this list I knew that these all could have been all of my regrets at many points in my life, even while “living my dreams.”

Let’s not have them be any of our regrets.

Live your life with more love than you ever thought possible.  It’s always the best choice ever.



The Love Camp is open for a few days this year.  Learn more HERE.  Ask me questions if you’ve got ’em.  And, join us in the magic-making.




We all have priorities.

I’ll start with a bold statement here: love is the biggest priority in so many ways.  It’s our life force.

Filling your life with people you love and seeing them, loving yourself and seeing yourself in alone time that’s grounding and fulfilling, loving your life enough to fill it with activities and goals and dreams and compassion that lights you up…

This is everything. Continue Reading…

be in love with your life

We all make changes in our own ways. Some people I’ve worked with are very all-or-nothing. Some are slow and methodical. Some alternate between the two. A rere number of people I’ve seen do best when they change everything seemingly overnight.

Whether you’re looking to change the food you eat, how much you sleep, your job, your relationship or anything else that deeply impacts your life, making the change is the first step.

Keeping the change in place— real lasting change— is a practice. And at best, it is thrilling and at the very least it’s exciting!

It’s all about going deeper beneath the surface to change things where they originate and it can start a huge life revolution.   Continue Reading…

(yago hortal— wow!)

Are we all born creative?  YES we are.

While it’s common to think we’re “learning how to be creative” in life, we’re actually born as unlimited genius creators.

And this has been proven!

In fact we learn to actually stifle, extinuish and block our genius creativity as time goes on if we’re not aware.

When creativity starts to dim, so does the love in your life, the sparkle, the manifesting power, the belief that things are possible, the knowing that we create our lives and the magical thinking of imagination that shapes every moment.

We move from CAUSE to EFFECT, wondering how to get out from under what’s happening to us, rather than creating our own ways and our own positive outcomes.

Let’s get that creative genius back in the greatest of all ways, more and more every day!

You don’t have to learn to be creative.  You just need to make the space to allow your inimitable voice to shine through.

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(world animal foundation talks about the importance of trees)

While I don’t live by horoscopes, but I find the patterns of astrology, especially the moons and big trends and themes, to be incredibly thoughtful and aligned with things I’m thinking about.

The biggest of trends are the outer planets— slow moving and thought to be deeply change-making, their shifts are ones that seem to be broader, deeper and really fascinating.

There are two big shifts that started in late 2017 and now in 2018 that will be around for 7/8 years and they’re all about reconstructing life so that it works on a much more powerful level.

Saturn moved into Capricorn in December of 2017, shining a light on creating new order, organization and clarity in every day. There’s more feng shui on this HERE.

And now, Uranus moved into Taurus. This shift is thought to be about wealth and abundance and even our systems of money itself (like… money may actually change!) and living with passion to create that abundance. It’s about the Earth, enriching the Earth, even gardening and composting.  It’s about passion and love and rich sensory living and how it brings a higher level of wealth to all of life.

We’ll touch on this way more I’m sure in the 8 years ahead, but today I wanted to start with some change-making feng shui. More specifically: embracing change. It’s not easy sometimes to do, even when we actually want change!

If you look back to 2010, that’s when the last Uranus shift happened into Aries. The theme was becoming more aligned with your path and stepping into leading in your life.

It was when a sonic boom happened in my own life.  That sonic boom I couldn’t explain ultimately led me to do things I never thought about and have been the greatest blessings. Including starting this blog from a popular little Tumblr blog in early 2011.

I’m not one to predict how this will affect anyone else (because we are all so individual) but I’m one to champion anything and everything to do with positive change-making for sure!




feng shui 101And, if you want to dive in to your own personalized feng shui in a modern, practical way, Say hello to Feng Shui 101. Its the guide I made for you to create your own personalized feng shui at home, in the office, wherever you may be… in 8 weeks. It’s not filled with strict rules or what you “must” do. Its filled with information, questions, exercises and even videos and classes to help you confidently create amazing spaces with killer feng shui and live with more flow. Learn more about the 8-week feng shui adventure & grab your copy to get started right HERE… And, as always, please let me know what happens!

(lalah deliah)

Lately, I’ve become acutely aware of how I feel more by the moment because it has everything to do with how my days go.

When I feel lower than usual, or cloudy, or stuck… I crave certain things, and maybe you do, too.

And it can happen in an instant, it seems.

I crave social media, tv, super-sweet snacks, sleep even though I’m not tired…

It’s the start of a down spiral in momentum.  It’s the start of losing steam and power and joy.

It may not be the start of a big mood crash, but it’s the invitation for haze, difficulty and cloudiness to wash over the day.

This is when I’ve come to see I have decisions to make, in those moments before I click on Instagram or start wondering and thinking too much or anything else.

These decisions have been the make/break point between creating life and living at the effect of life.

Today, we can all start making even more decisions that make us masters and manifesting what we want! Continue Reading…

Success is personal.  We all want and value different things.  The common thread is we all want much more of what they want!

Highest vibes bring in the highest vibes!

We are giant brodcasting centers and we can tune our messages to broadcast the information we want to experience and want other people to experience. We do it without saying a word. I’ve seen any ercent studies on this, but Dr. Bruce Lipton was one of the first to talk about it frm the perspective of our biology.

If you were close in proximity to me right now as I sit and type this, you’d feel how amazing I feel right now and you might even sense how much I wish there were about 10 more hours in the day this month because I am so thrilled about everything happening! You may even sense it reading this.

True story: this is why I tend to write only when I am in the frame of mind that’s the lightest. I don’t want to broadcast to you any less than feel-great-vibes!

Why this matters is so huge: if you’re spending your days picking up negative broadcasts around you, imbibing negative broadcasts from the Internet, TV, conversations, etc, you’re basically tuning in to this frequency and far less that’s awesome comes from this frequency.

Tuning into the highest vibes can be your giant life revolution that feels incredibly amazing!!! Continue Reading…

I grew up happy in my own universe.  I’m happy to be back in that happy place.

In the middle, I took a very damaging, unproductive, stressful detour.  If it taught me once-and-for-all to stop chasing things, it was worth it.

I am 100%  done with chasing anything like I used to.   And today, the feng shui is all about active attraction instead of striving.

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