The Emormous Power Of Finding & Living Your Mission In Life!


The world is vast and everywhere needs and wants are different, and I would venture to say that many of you have non-traditional careers, you are devoted parents or don’t need a job for various reasons, many of you work at jobs that pay the bills that you don’t love or you actually have found something you love and want to expand it.

Everyone is unique, yet many of us share this drive to create and live with more freedom, passion and purpose. It’s our magic.

My Camps online are filled with people of all ages (I have no “ideal client” as many a business person suggested I need…) who share the common desire to shape life in new, exciting and super-inspired ways that reflect personal passion and fulfillment.  I watch each group come together like supernatural magnets to support, enhance and create space for love for one another… and from there, passions emerge or re-emerge and lifestyles get redesigned along with homes!

And that’s a force of love, not business savvy and marketing plans or data.  It’s a force of open-heartedness rather than thought and information.  It’s a product of creativity rather than study.

And… if you’re looking to expand your own sense of fulfillment and love (or find!) your mission in life, today’s feng shui is all about that expansive energy awakenened in your life!


Do you need to find your life’s mission or expand it more?  It can feel like it’s so much pressure to get there, to get started, a restlesness to find it… but…

Relax. There’s really no reason to stress if you haven’t found your ideal job yet, your perfect mission, your North Star of a project or philanthropic endeavor.  Stress pushes the doors closed because it sends life into stagnation.

After a good five years of furious stress about what to do with my life, hustling every creative idea as though a clock was ticking, I finally found feng shui when I got sick for months, nearly died and had time on my hands to explore the internet while I was finally mending.

The ideas of feng shui illuminated a mission, even if I would never use feng shui itself professionally. I didn’t realize it until I slowed down.  It was still years later before it evolved into a career, but, the difference was, I knew that life would only unfold for me if I trusted and allowed it instead of beating myself up with extreme pressure.

I became healthier than ever, happier than ever, more “lucky” than ever because I was morecreative than ever and more calm and focused within myself than ever before.

Love was the light. I want to stress that it wasn’t the crisis that opened my mind and heart to explore— it was the elements of healing that opened up my own life.  Self-love, self-care, sleep, kindness to myself, no pressure, no invisible ticking clock.

When I recovered I realized that I didn’t need to “suffer” through the years that preceeded my meltdown.

I could have been kinder to myself. 

I could have created more stability for myself. 

I could have been easier on myself. 

I could have had more patience and more balance. 

I could have put myself first a lot more.

But, we learn things the way we learn them, and the time was right for my own experience!

That said, if you’re looking for your mission, that larger, brighter, North Star of a mission, the above list in italics may hold some support for you along the way.

Brilliance.  One other brilliant bit of learning that helped me so much was from Simon Sinek.  He explained in a lecture I attended that the brain has a hard time articulating a life purpose.  Truly, it’s hard to put it into words.

So how do you start finding your why?

Call up a few people who know you well and ask, unvarnished, what they identify most about you.  People told me when I did this that I was consistent, always optimistic, I pulled ideas from so many disciplines, and I was always on their side.  I was shocked and I was helped greatly by this as it gave me a sort of language to explore with!

If you want more Simon Sinek insight about uncovering your core mission, here he talks about Loving Your Work.  It’s a bit long but he never disappoints!

It’s always an inside job.  Instead of loving my mission or the process of finding it, when I felt lost and impatient I tried to gain insight, ideas or even sort of hide behind the identity of a few very powerful ex boyfriends.  I joked I was a professional girlfriend, and the joke became less a joke over time and more a full blown identity crisis.  And the experiences were surreal, thrilling, eye-opening… but none brought me closer to personal fulfillment.  I had to look within, stand in my own power, love myself as much as I loved other people and let life unfold.

You don’t need to have a traditional career or a job of any kind to have a huge life mission.  My mother had a huge purpose on the planet and didn’t work for various reasons for much of her life.  When I was first told that she died suddenly, in shock my first thought was “No one will ever love me as much again.”  I don’t believe that now… but that’s how powerful her love was and how it transformed everyone around her.  I feel her around me every day, and I realize that type of blessed energy thankfully doesn’t fade.

So, this life of purpose and passion as I mean it, as I’ve lived it and as I’ve seen it change lives… it’s not about skill-finding tests that businesses do with employees, awesomely fun and useful analysis like the Myers Briggs test, insta-business creation and marketing tricks or even writing a personal mission statement as many interesting business consultants have suggested.

This is all well and good and some of it is great… but it won’t likely lead you to passion.  It’s information, it’s cerebral and often smart, useful… but incomplete without your soul’s investment.

Love is that force of mission and purpose.

Where that love for yourself and for every day leads you is wholly unique.   It lights up talents, illuminates ideas, directs decisions… and it’s the overarching idea I offer for anyone who wants to bring more mission and purpose to the world.

Love what you’re doing now, love yourself more every day and love the ideas and talents that pop up enough to explore them with an open heart.  Wherever we are, there’s always a next level to go… and that unquantifiable quality of life, that pure love, is an awesome guide to take that next step.



P.S.: .The Love Camp is coming (!!!) to transform life with so much more love! Attracting more love, expanding life in love, living with more love in every day!

The FREE 3-Video series kicks things off right HERE!!! It’s packed with feng shui to help you create even more openness, magnetism and more LOVE in awesome, tangible ways! This hour of feng shui videos for love starts soon and it’s only up for 21 days a year…so if you’re ready for a more magnetic, prosperous and far more love-filled life, you won’t want to miss it!




feng shui 101And, if you want to dive in to your own personalized feng shui in a modern, practical way, Say hello to Feng Shui 101.  Its the guide I made for you to create your own personalized feng shui at home, in the office, wherever you may be… in 8 weeks.  It’s not filled with strict rules or what you “must” do.  Its filled with information, questions, exercises and even videos and classes to help you confidently create amazing spaces with killer feng shui and live with more flow.   Learn more about the 8-week feng shui adventure & grab your copy to get started right HERE…   And, as always, please let me know what happens!

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