When It Feels Wrong It Almost Always Is Wrong!

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Welcome to my favorite feng shui tip ever:

When it feels wrong it is wrong.

Really…almost always.

When it feels wrong it is wrong. Don’t second guess yourself. Don’t live in fear. Don’t think you don’t know an imaginary set of rules.

When it feels wrong it just is wrong.

Don’t worry about it. Don’t torture yourself over it. Let yourself feel it.

If it is wrong… you can always make another choice.

Let me tell you, there were times when I have talked myself out of what feels right because of social convention. Thats when it feels really wrong- when you follow “the rules of propriety” even though you know they are wrong. THEN you are stuck with both a bad situation and also guilt.

Guilt sucks as well.  You don’t need that.


Let go of what feels wrong.

The trick in this is to not let go of what is challenging or expanding your life just because it is challenging.

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That’s very different from “what feels wrong”…

What feels really wrong…

  • Makes you feel sick
  • Keeps you up at night
  • Preoccupies your mind with worry and yet you can’t articulate it well
  • Turns your life into a rollercoaster
  • Makes your moods feel like a tidal wave

Challenges and situations to handle and obstacles are not the same as these situations where you try to convince yourself to hang onto something that is really bad for you.

Trust yourself. Move toward toward what makes you feel strong. The good news is that when it feels right, it typically is right!!!

xoxo Dana



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Patricia September 4, 2014 at 6:02 pm

hi, if I order feng shui 101, can I read this on a kindle. Also are you offering any discounts for your book.
Thank you so much for your time. You are a wonderful inspiring person.

danaclaudat September 7, 2014 at 4:52 am

it is a pdf and its as it is… you can read it on your computer if you’d like 🙂 Thank you!!!! xoxo

Jeanne September 5, 2014 at 8:45 pm

I am so blessed, grateful and fortunate to find a job that I love. While the “universe” pushed me to find another job, this job feels right and it is exactly fit for who I am and my personality. As I sit here smiling, I am so glad I didn’t try to hold onto my old job. It is inspiring and fulfilling and magical! Following your instincts and planning for what you know is right, somehow help guide you to where you need to be. Sigh 🙂

danaclaudat September 5, 2014 at 11:48 pm

you are such an inspiration!!!! xoxoxo

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