I never cared what anyone thought… until I started to slowly, then rapidly, stop trusting myself. It started when I surrounded myself with lots of “fabulous” people who liked to subtly criticize me. I ate their words. I took on the uncertainty. It spiraled into being very unsure of myself in many other ways. So… I let psychics tell me the future, I asked friends in fashion what to wear, I let my hairstylist pick my hair color, I let everyone else weigh in on my love life, my career, my travel… even my religion. I wasn’t in love with any of the decisions I was making, so I looked to other people to make them feel more “right.” It started so slowly and so quickly I was undone. Utter and complete hell.
Have you done this? Are you doing this, now? If so, take the time to make one decision based solely on what you deeply desire. Ignore the critics. See how it feels. If it feels good, why stop?! xoxo Dana