Kim Anami On Sex & Money!


(marilyn minter)

If there is one singular individual in the world that I have the pleasure to know who understands ecstasy as it permeates every area of life it is sex and intimacy expert Kim Anami. When Kim talks, I listen intently.  She understands and lives the like of real adventure on every level, and it all relates in her work to the power of sexual energy. While her work is not for the faint of heart, it is extraordinarily important to understand that blocks in your mind, in your body and in your life are all related.  lot’s of us want to expand and make changes, and, as Kim explains, money is a product of sweeping away the blocks and harnessing your energy. But why should I bother to translate when she’s allowed me to share THIS fabulous article that I am so excited about!

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(tracey emin) 

From Kim Anami:

The easiest way to get rich is to have more sex.

More gourmet sex.

That is, sex which is infused with the power of surrender. Sex where you let go, emotionally open and let yourself be seen.

If you are feeling financially stuck, chances are that you are sexually stuck.

Sexual energy is life force energy. It creates new life. If you aren’t creating babies, you need to be directing that energy somewhere. If you don’t, it will invert back on you in all sorts of destructive ways, creating everything from depression to weight gain to health problems to zero cash flow.

You have the creative power of the universe at your genitals. Use it.

Here’s how:

1) Have regular sex. If not with a partner, then with yourself. Set up weekly sex dates, or several times a week. Hey, even try a 30-day sex challenge to kick things off. This energy needs to be kept moving, or it will get stuck and implode.

2) Use sexual ailments as barometers. Any problem in the reproductive organs is simply dammed up sexual energy. You name it, whatever it manifests as on the physical plane in your breasts, prostate, cervix, womb—it is only the expression of stuck energy somewhere connected to your sexuality.

It’s a sign that instead of expressing your energy outward into the world, it is inverting on you can causing pain and dis-ease.

Take that as a sign that you have to reverse the flow.

I see this a lot with clients. Especially in women and the appearance of cysts. When I question them about their sexual history, there is always a correlation to suppressed sexual energy.

3) Your “financial difficulties” are manmade. Meaning, you made them. Take responsibility. Money is energy. Money is the universe affirming back to you that you have stepped up to your game, and are giving it your all.

If you are just dialing it in, if you haven’t fully connected to your path and are not giving your gifts, your bank balance will reflect that.

Not sure what your gifts are?

Here’s a hint: the closer you get to the truth of your gifts, the more money you make.

For years, I was in “exploration” mode, or I was doing some version of what I do now, but not yet in its fully realized form. When I got bolder, put myself out there more and fully owned my gifts, the universe responded with more money.

4) Your libido = life force. Carl Jung said that on a psychological level, the libido is our drive to individuate, to express our unique gifts in the world. You tap into that much more easily when you are tuned into your sexual energy.

At times, when I feel excited about doing something, when I’m poised at the precipice or big risk, I feel a tingling in my genitals. I’m so excited, that I’m sexually excited.

AND, the precursor to this was me fully connecting to my sexual energy. I opened up the floodgates of my enormous sexual appetite—which really is an appetite for life, because sexual energy and creative energy are one in the same, remember?—and the financial abundance poured in.

5) Clear the blocks in your sexual relationship. This applies to both your relationship with sex and within an intimate partnership. If you carry internalized sexual oppression (and we all do), it weighs you down until you confront it.

If there are blocks in your relationship, it will show up as impeded cash flow.

One couple I was working with had decades of financial instability. This mirrored their marital blocks. Once we worked on clearing those blocks, they experienced a financial ease that had eluded them for years. Literally, the phone calls kept coming with invitations to work after we processed a major block that had been sitting in the space for years.

Um…. how brilliant is Kim?! To be personally guided to your own renewed sexual life and all that it brings you in creativity, prosperity and transcendence check out Kim’s latest salon to cure the undersexed among us right HERE.  I am so excited for you to go on an adventure with Kim!  xoxo Dana

Eva July 13, 2013 at 12:01 am

I bet David Duchovny and Michael Douglas like her advice!

Sam January 25, 2014 at 6:09 am

I’m a fan of your website Dana but have to say this article was a disappointment in more ways than one. The writer needs to own some kind of responsibility around the fact that anyone of any age and culture could be reading her content. So trying to tell a 19 year old, girl in I don’t know Iran – to go out and get sex is a ridiculous idea. Secondly, it can be argued that people who lead a celibate life and channel their energies to something else that they enjoy live healthy and perfectly happy lives. Financial abundance or happiness, it is all in your mind since it is mind over matter more often than not, having or not having sex does not change it. Sex produces hormones that make us happy/emotional etc just like endorphins after a run. Obviously it is her job to sell it and that’s what the channel is for, but I am not sure what % of people would resonate with this.

danaclaudat January 25, 2014 at 7:07 am

Sam, I am so sorry this met you with disappointment. Kim Anami, the author of the piece, does not advocate just “going out and getting sex” though perhaps that’s not very clear in the content. Also, she is a big proponent of the idea that you don’t need to be having sex with a partner to channel the energy associated with ones sexuality into creativity and yes, exactly as you say, other areas of your life. As I said, I am super sorry that this was not a great piece for you, but I would never share the work of anyone (I rarely share anyone elses’s writing) unless I felt there was actual (and non-dangerous) value in what was being taught in the message and intention of the writer for many people. Kim talks about concepts like mental feng shui, which is how we connected years ago, and how I got to know her and her work very well. If you look into her work, you may find it is quite the opposite of promoting promiscuity. I fact, she only promotes intimacy. All that said, I really appreciate your feedback! xoxo Dana

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